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Never let it go if it has to stay anyway!

People often say let bygones be bygones and move on. But what if the past has taken the best years of your life, and its echoes continue to haunt you, relentlessly replaying in your mind, moment by moment? A single painful memory may fade with time, but what about the relentless repetition of those memories, leaving you with no choice but to coexist with the pain? Acceptance is crucial, but there's a difference between accepting the truth and accepting the unbearable weight of that truth. Especially when you're forced to feign normalcy, avoiding endless arguments that might unearth the pain you've tried to bury. So, perhaps it's not about letting go, but about remembering the pain so vividly that one more instance becomes insignificant against the vast landscape of grievances."

Go! Get a girl friend

 Hey guys, especially married men, we want to share something important. Having a female friend outside of your marriage can be really helpful. It's not about an affair, but about gaining a different perspective on relationships and emotions. A female friend can help you understand your wife's feelings and thoughts better, which can strengthen your marriage. Sometimes, discussing issues with friends who are men might not be as helpful since they might face similar challenges. A female friend can offer insights that can help you navigate relationship issues more effectively.