Will you miss ME?

 Hi! Everyone

It's me. There are different reasons why I am on this platform. The most significant one is ofcourse for communication. But you might be thinking why I need a platform like this to communicate. The answer is either I am not able to communicate everything worth sharing with the people I know or they are not able to comprehend the right meaning of what I want to say. Also, there is always a space for sensible people who can connect with me on the same mental and emotional ground.

Recently I was pondering over the thought how people come in terms with the loss of people in their life and cope up with the stress of living with a permanent void in their life that is created after someone is left. It may be a permanent loss of person resulted due to death, a separation due to geographical boundaries or an emotional drift caused due to some friction in relationship. The reason may be anyone but the pain feels the same. Moving on without someone we desperately want in our life is painful. Then, I realised that what we miss about people is not merely their presence and the memories we made with them, it is more about what we missed to experience with them. If we are fortunate and sensible enough to have had our best time with someone, we are left with no resentment in life. So, we are not going to miss them as the memories will be enough for rest of the life to cherish. What kills us from within is the thought - "I would have done this or I wouldn't have done  that". 

This is one of the reason why I am here. I don't want the resentment later about not being able to express my thoughts due to any reason. A thought shared is a thought nurtured. Keeping this vision in mind with a promise of sharing my stories with you  I want to wrap up my first blog. 

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