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Never let it go if it has to stay anyway!

People often say let bygones be bygones and move on. But what if the past has taken the best years of your life, and its echoes continue to haunt you, relentlessly replaying in your mind, moment by moment? A single painful memory may fade with time, but what about the relentless repetition of those memories, leaving you with no choice but to coexist with the pain? Acceptance is crucial, but there's a difference between accepting the truth and accepting the unbearable weight of that truth. Especially when you're forced to feign normalcy, avoiding endless arguments that might unearth the pain you've tried to bury. So, perhaps it's not about letting go, but about remembering the pain so vividly that one more instance becomes insignificant against the vast landscape of grievances."

Go! Get a girl friend

 Hey guys, especially married men, we want to share something important. Having a female friend outside of your marriage can be really helpful. It's not about an affair, but about gaining a different perspective on relationships and emotions. A female friend can help you understand your wife's feelings and thoughts better, which can strengthen your marriage. Sometimes, discussing issues with friends who are men might not be as helpful since they might face similar challenges. A female friend can offer insights that can help you navigate relationship issues more effectively.

The Silent Separation

 It may be silent, but it is the reason for a loud uproar going on inside the mind. The process is so slow and gradual that one keeps slipping into its claws in the desire to keep the relationship alive. The deep silence kills everything and creates a vacuum where nothing is present, not even the fond memories, as they all were crushed under the failed efforts of resolving issues. The efforts turn into heated arguments every time and evaporate everything that is left there. The void could never be filled. To the worst, it swallows all the other relations that could prove to be a savior if the marriage gets completely ruined. Now, it is beyond the debate of right or wrong. Who cares who is right and who is wrong if the consequences are to be borne by both? What makes it more painful is the transition between the phase when you want to try to make it better to the time when you give up, losing all hope. Once the truth is accepted, it becomes easy to survive as one does not need to fo...

An apology

 Dear children  We are really sorry that you all are facing this tough time for no mistake of yours. We don't have answers for most of your questions but you are the solution for all our problems. We are going through a tough time but the only thing that make all the lessons and losses worth it, is you.  Even in tough times, the driving force that keeps everyone going is you. In ambition of fulfilling all your dreams we overburdened the resources to such an extent that now we all are deprived of basic necessities such as air and freedom.  So, it is a humble request to all the children please don't let your emotional, intellectual, social, mental and physical growth be compromised in this difficult time. Do what is best for you to bring smile on your faces which will eventually spread to others around you. Share the new things that you learn or experience with your parents. Do let them know that you are able to cope up with adversity and  will emerge out of it as...

Injustice can never be justified.

How do we see people condoling someone in grief or pain? If we try to recollect out experiences and observations from real life situations or some movie, we will find that sharing the bad experiences and the pain of our life with a grieved person is the most common way to relieve someone's pain. But does it really lessen the pain? The answer is definitely No by any means. Recently I was reading some posts on Facebook. It explain why a doctor charge hefty amount for just 2 minutes consultation. The reason is that a patient no only pays for the 2 minutes consultation but for years of hardwork done by doctor to become able and proficient enough to deal with the disease of patient in 2 minutes. I wondered if it is true for doctors, engineers and other professionals, why the situation doesn't improve for a teacher. A teacher is still the lowest paid professional in India if we exclude government teachers. Even if we can't compare the investment done by teacher to become proficie...

Science - A way of Life

  Newton discovered gravitational force, Archimedes discovered buoyancy, Alexander discovered the first vaccine, Edison invented the bulb and the list goes on and on.  All these great discoveries and inventions seemed to happen by chance but it actually requires a lot of research and scientific approach in thinking to unwrap the mystery of nature and discover new things. Science is not only about studying complex laws and phenomena, it is a way of life. The scientific method is used unconsciously by many people on a daily basis, for tasks such as cooking and budgeting.  Understanding how to apply the scientific method to these seemingly non-scientific problems can be valuable in furthering one's career and in making health-related decisions. It requires a systematic approach to complete any task or deal with a situation. One needs to be very clear with the aim, material required and procedure. Also, observation and drawing conclusions for further reinforcement is an integ...

Will you miss ME?

 Hi! Everyone It's me. There are different reasons why I am on this platform. The most significant one is ofcourse for communication. But you might be thinking why I need a platform like this to communicate. The answer is either I am not able to communicate everything worth sharing with the people I know or they are not able to comprehend the right meaning of what I want to say. Also, there is always a space for sensible people who can connect with me on the same mental and emotional ground. Recently I was pondering over the thought how people come in terms with the loss of people in their life and cope up with the stress of living with a permanent void in their life that is created after someone is left. It may be a permanent loss of person resulted due to death, a separation due to geographical boundaries or an emotional drift caused due to some friction in relationship. The reason may be anyone but the pain feels the same. Moving on without someone we desperately want in our lif...